Engage Summit Day Two – The Breakers Palm Beach

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We hope everyone had a fabulous 4th of July Weekend! Our Couture team was all over the place this weekend rocking our red, white, and blue with pride. We’re continuing our Engage Summit adventures with photos from Day Two! If you missed Day One be sure to check it out here! It is such a whirlwind to relive these events, there was so much talent in one space and it was such an honor to learn from these people we love and bring those lessons back to our team.

We started Day Two with a New Orleans inspired Breakfast of Champions. Every food station was named after a different street in NOLA and the decor was reminiscient of that classic southern charm. We went straight into our morning session and then had a ‘HAPPY BREAK’ which was exactly what it sounds like…bright yellow, cheerful, emoji filled snacks and smiles all around. Our beach club lunch followed and it had the cutest cabana inspired decor right down to the coral shaped metallic menus. Our main session was so inspiring – really well respected men and women in the wedding community stood before us and shared their best kept secrets, their highs and lows, and their advice for us, their peers, as we forge ahead with our dreams and goals in this industry.

The night ended with an amazing popsicle break and SUGAR.PARTY. that’s right folks. Sugar, candy, confections, all you could eat. Dancers and gymnasts adorned with sprinkles for make-up, brightly-colored wigs, and sweets like you wouldn’t believe. It was such a fun celebration and a great way to end night two as we prepared for the Gala on night three…more to come tomorrow!

breakfast of champions day two

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happy break day two yellow custom napkins bright yellow reception

engage summit day two luncheon

main session stage decor

day two general session engage summit main stage

day two engage summit general session set up

general session day two chair layout

main session engage summit day two painting party

pretty peony heaven

day two general session engage summit main stage

opening session day two engage summit

popsicle break ice cream sandwiches custom napkins engage summit day two

popsicle break goodness

popsicle break day two engage summit

Sugar Party

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sugar party engage summit gourmet milkshakes

engage summit day two sugar party gymnast
engage summit sugar party day two

Photographer Credit: John Cain Photography, Jeremie Barlow, Love Life Images, Joel Callaway

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A Toast To The Season, The Lodge At Torrey Pines


This December we were invited to be a part of The Lodge at Torrey Pines’ annual Toast to the Season Event! The Lodge was all aglow and it was a great time to connect with our industry friends to celebrate another amazing year of weddings and to look forward to the year ahead!

The Lodge at Torrey Pines offers such a wonderful blend of classic and beach vibes! Its’ world-renown golf course and craftsman-style architecture are the perfect nod to tradition, and the cliffs overlooking La Jolla shores create timeless, sun-kissed romance. Thank you Torrey Pines for hosting us and inspiring us as we head into 2016!












Photography: The Youngrens 

Rentals: Hire Elegance

Stationery & Coasters: Twinkle & Toast

Florals: Organic Elements

Linens: La Tavola Linen

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Benefits of Pre-Marital Counseling.

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Save the date. Pick a Venue. Flowers. Dress. Color scheme. Seating Chart. Bridesmaids. Groomsmen. DJ. Rehearsal dinner. Photos. The list goes on! It’s no wonder that in the midst of planning the biggest event of your life that the relationship itself can sometimes get lost in the mix. I know for me, there were many times in my engagement season that I felt distant and disconnected from my fiancé. So much so that after our rehearsal dinner I BEGGED him to go to Walmart with me to pick up an extension cord we needed last minute just so we would have 20 minutes alone to connect! So how do we not only plan for an incredible wedding, but also for an incredible marriage?? It takes intention. Investing time in premarital therapy not only creates space for connecting during your engagement season but also helps you lay the groundwork for the commitment you are making in “I do!”

1. Get to know your strengths!

All couples have strength and growth areas. In pre-marital therapy, I love to highlight your strengths and really get to know how they work. What makes your relationship feel safe, supportive and connected? These strengths are the key to navigating the highs and lows ahead. By really understanding what makes your relationship feel solid, it will be easier for you in the future to identify where you might be feeling stuck or disconnected.

2. Guide through the rocky places!

Conflict is often seen as being a sign of something being wrong with the relationship. In fact, conflict and disagreement are common in both healthy and unhealthy couples. The difference sits in your ability to work through it in a way that is effective. As they prepare for marriage, many couples are wrestling with tougher topics like finances, sex, family, etc. I like to help couples have these conversations in a way that leaves them feeling like they were both heard and have accomplished something for their relationship. The transition into marriage is sometimes a trying time for a relationship and can bring with it unexpected challenges. By setting aside time during the engagement season to invest in your relationship, you are working together to try and foresee potential tough spots and come up with a plan for how to handle them.

3. Resource for the future!

By the time a couple has gone through pre-marital therapy, I know the ins and outs of their relationship. The benefit of this lasts longer than just pre-marital therapy itself. Life inevitably will bring challenges and in those times, it is helpful to know that you have someone to turn to, someone you already trust. I like to think of it like a family doctor who sees their patients from childhood through to adulthood. By having an established relationship with a therapist, it means that you can come in for check ups throughout the life of your marriage. It helps me have a context for how to best help you and helps you to bypass the “getting to know you” phase of therapy and get any help you need quickly.

The wedding day is just the beginning! Give your relationship the time and attention it deserves for you both to feel happy, healthy, and connected long after the “I do’s”! For more information on pre-marital therapy, you can check out my website. CONGRATS! And best wishes on your exciting journey ahead!!

 Posted by Mariah McQueen 

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